We may earn money from the links on this page. Aug 17, Getty Images Finding your person is no easy task. And sometimes it feels like the dating pool is filled with too many frogs, not nearly enough princes thanks, Meghan Markle. Chemistry Don't feel bad the next time you turn someone down because the chemistry just isn't there. McMahan says initially women are drawn to men based on attraction. Do I feel energized when I talk to this person? These are qualities that help to establish a foundation, to form a deeper connection, and a relationship with this person, McMahan says. Vulnerability It's difficult to build a relationship with someone who's closed off.
It just means you have standards. Economic independence. Well, obviously, women want a big cheese who has some brains. Sure, perhaps not every woman is looking designed for a rocket scientist, but an IQ above is at least the austere minimum. Street smarts.